Dating selfish lover
Selfish people are always lovable, nice and really sweet. For all you know, you may be in love with a selfish person right now, or perhaps you have a best friend who’s selfish.
They’d just assume they’re nice people who care about their own happiness more than anything else.This is another example though of someone projecting their vision of things and assuming that the other person is on board – in this instance, the solo thinker, because they can’t see past their own nose, thinks that stuff they do in their interests is in your interests, because By the same token though, you can be an individual with boundaries and values within the team – it’s called ‘sense of self’.It’s called being an individual entity with a decent level of personal security.Have you ever been out on a date and your date was rude to a service person and even though you were first so strongly attracted to him/her, the attraction suddenly went down a few notches?May be you have an ex who you still have very strong feelings for but you just can’t bring yourself to go back into the relationship because you feel your ex is self – centered and you just can’t get out of your mind those times he/she acted selfishly -in or out of the bedroom?
Some studies even show that men and women who put themselves at risk to help someone else they do not even know are better lovers – in and out of the bedroom.