Dating a loser guy
We fear all sorts of things when we don't understand why our daughters would get a relationship going with a loser. I told her this time that she should go to some kind of counseling to find out WHY she seems to attract this kind of person, and how to change that.Even the emotional abuse thing has been in my mind as well. She agreed, but then said, 'I won't leave him though...' Well, that kind of defeats the purpose, doesn't it!We also want to be happy for our children, yet when they choose paths that lead to nowhere we don't think they are going to end up happy so that's upsetting too. She is the nicest person ever when she's NOT with these 'losers'.
Fuckboys are not always easy to spot in the wild, given their highly adaptive nature and ability to blend in.My friend Jess’s nineteen year-old daughter has been dating this boy for two years.Jess and her husband have never been fond of this boy who they describe as lazy and a loser.Any betch that's been through the Amazon jungle of dating knows that meeting a fuckboy now is like finding a Rattata in the original Gameboy Pokemon—it's common AF but you always hope it's something better.The key to getting rid of the fuckboys in your life is to know how to identify early signs of fuckboyism before you get too attached.
Her question for me was when should this conversation take place.